Engagement photos aren’t just about capturing your love—they’re about telling your story in a way that feels elevated, effortless, and timeless. One of the most common questions I get as a Charlotte wedding and engagement photographer is: “What should we wear for our engagement session?” Let’s break it down.
- Wear Something That Feels Like You (But Elevated)
Start with your personal style and then level it up just a bit. You want to feel confident and comfortable—because that shows in your photos. Think of what you’d wear to a nice dinner date or a romantic weekend away. Then, elevate it with layers, texture, or intentional accessories.
- Think in Terms of Color & Texture
Neutral and earthy tones photograph beautifully, especially with natural light. Soft creams, warm taupes, muted sage, dusty rose, and deep charcoals all work well. Avoid neons, logos, or distracting patterns. Textures like linen, lace, denim, or knitwear add depth and movement to your photos.
- Coordinate Without Matching
Your outfits should complement each other, not compete. Mix tones that work well together (e.g., one person in light neutrals, the other in darker or richer tones). You don’t want to look like twins—but you do want your outfits to feel cohesive.
- Bring Two Looks
If time and location allow, I always recommend one more formal or dramatic outfit, and one more relaxed and playful. Think: a flowy dress and boots in the field, then jeans and cozy sweaters at the café. More looks = more variety in your gallery.
- Avoid Distractions
Skip logos, graphics, loud stripes, or super busy patterns. The focus should be on you, your connection, and the scenery—not what’s written on your shirt.
- Consider Movement
Outfits that allow for flow, movement, and interaction (like a long dress or an oversized sweater) bring an extra layer of magic to candid photos. Think twirling, running, lifting, or cuddling up in a blanket.
- Think About Your Location
If you’re shooting in a garden, farmhouse, or vineyard—lean into romantic textures and colors. If you’re in the city, opt for a sleek, editorial-inspired look. Planning a beach session? Flowy linen, bare feet, and neutral tones are a dream.
Bonus Tip: Don’t Forget the Details
Shoes, jewelry, nails, grooming—these little things show up. And yes, I’ll totally remind you to empty your pockets!
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